a mother's night

My daughter's mischievous grin haunts my sleep.

As I lie here dreading another night interrupted by an increasingly independent preschooler who is still testing the waters in her newfound nighttime freedom, my infant awakes, screaming bloody murder. My objectives shift from creative ponderings and putting pen to paper as my mind muses to that of a mother hen, calm, soothe, put back to bed.

Practicality always seems to trump creative mom time - even when all is pitch and I desire only a moment to reflect.

Now I'll lie awake until that child is asleep - her tossing subsiding and her lip-smacking sleep noises resumed.

And then what? I'll wait, knowing - thinking - dreading the other child's midnight waking.

When do other moms ever sleep? How on earth do moms of more than two make it through the night?


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A growl rises from her throat; is that intended toward the lion beside her, the dream that rudely awoke her, the world in general, mother dearest for suffering so much as to open her door, which seemed to wake her to begin with?

Facebook

Facebook is a great tool, but sometimes I think it comes with a price. Yes, it's a source of quick, mass-contact communication. Yes, it's great to reconnect with friends from long ago, connect with friends from today in a new light, or make new connections and network toward a better tomorrow.

However, I am bus-hit by a family death announced via Facebook. I wasn't particularly close to the one of many sisters of my grandma anyway, but it makes me doubletake the fact that my brother and I (more electronically connected) had to tell my mother, the very niece of the deceased, of the death.

...

I'm torn, and have many more facets to ponder after bedtime, and so I leave this as ....

I hope my youngest doesn't feel gipped out of mommy time! I know she doesn't know any different, so no harm done, but it seems as though any time I have free from the elder and her daycare buddy, I scurry to do housework or creative work or something else - and leave my younger to her own devices (well, of course free reign of the baby/toddler-friendly playroom, so perhaps she feels better than she would if I was right down with her the whole time!) I mean, I talk to her the whole time I'm doing dishes or dusting, or ... evidently blogging, but still mommy guilt creeps in, and I wonder if I should spend these five free minutes down playing with her. ... Alrighty, so I'll get down there right now until we need to go pick up big sister from school. :-)

Mother Muse Submission Call

Call for Submissions: Mother Muse Take Two

Due to popular demand, the editor of Mother Muse will embark on a sequel to the inspirational volume this winter. We now look for exceptional motherhood-themed writings (poetry, fiction, nonfiction) and artwork (photography included) celebrating the mother muse within us. We look for the experiences of mothers, grandmothers, aunts, daughters, granddaughters, everyone for this volume. All generations and all walks of life are encouraged. Please search “Mother Muse” on Amazon for an idea of the tone to expect within this sequel (positive, celebratory, whether exploring the incredible joys or the heart-wrenching challenges). We look forward to an even greater array of pieces to touch the soul, and seek variety in perspectives and presentation. Quality writing/art is imperative, regardless of genre or perspective.

Submission requirements:

1. Authors/artists may send up to five original, unpublished pieces (poems, prose, photography, other visual art able to be emailed with decent quality, b/w or color) that fit the theme of the collection. Please also send a 2-5 sentence biographical blurb about yourself for inclusion in the volume if your work is accepted. Submissions should be sent in the body of an email, with the subject line LAST NAME: TITLE/S OF WORK/S, along with a brief note verifying the piece/s as your original, unpublished work to motherhood2009@yahoo.com.

2. Submissions will be accepted through December 31, 2009. Contributors will receive a confirmation email upon receipt, though this email will be brief and will not imply acceptance in the collection. Accepted contributors will be notified by February 1, 2010 via email, and asked to return a form granting the publication of the accepted work/s, and agreeing to not submit the piece/s elsewhere until the volume’s publication in the spring.

3. Minor edits/revisions will be considered. Major revision will be entirely at the discretion of the editor. Contributors may receive comments on their pieces before and/or after the acceptance period, and will receive an emailed copy of the final version of their work/s, with a deadline for applicable revisions. Revisions made thereafter will not be included in the final volume.

4. Publication is anticipated before Mother’s Day 2010. We will have a publication party / book signing at a date to be determined, and anticipate a few readings around the Rochester, NY area for readers to meet and greet the writers. Contributors will be invited via email to these events as they are arranged. Contributors may also suggest venues for such events.

5. Contributors will receive complimentary copies, and will receive a contributor’s rate on additional copies. All contributors will also be recognized with bylines, and with a biographical blurb – see the 2009 edition for examples of this.

Any questions should be addressed to Editor Sueann Wells at motherhood2009@yahoo.com

Mother Muse Sequel?

Any thoughts on a sequel to the Mother Muse collection of motherhood-based writings?

I have sent copies to several book publishers, with the marketing plan and success of the first collection, but have been told vaguely (of course) that a sequel wouldn't fit with their current needs ... typical form rejection letter, I know, and yet I wonder if it's a sign that I should just go the self-published route again, and just get going on it, so that it will be out by spring 2010.

I know of several mass-momma markets in the Rochester, NY area, and have a few contacts elsewhere as well, so hopefully the response will be even greater than the 24 contributors to the first edition.

Any thoughts here?

Disclaimer

For folks who may be joining me in my literary journey here, I'd like to disclaim that I don't tend to like to share my pieces (poetry, prose, even journaling) unless they are what I'd like them to be. I'm trying something new here, in sharing works in progress. Once they're publishable quality, I intend to market them to journals, etc.

I welcome your thoughts on the pieces you read here, and I'll try to create links to other great sites and great writers I've found along the way. I cannot guarantee regularity of those elements, though, as I have a very busy home and daycare life, and am of course spending my spare moments trying to spread the word about the pieces (including the three books I already have published).

Until next time, be well!

Midnight Musings - rough poem/prose written between 12am and 2am this morning

clock ticks quickly
hours pass in near dark
moonlight musings
list making, business writing,
pondering of all the little things that keep getting pushed to the back burner
back burner's full, overflowing,
and now I sit, insomniac,
unable to unwind, decompress the day
Cheap Trick coverband's unfortunate set
unfortunately revolves in my ears as my lids weigh me down more
eight pages beside me on the couch
evidence of industry in midnight
though they're really just proof of
my mind's inconsideration for my body's sleep needs
clock keeps ticking,
another hour gone,
only five more hours till my alarm
what irony
cosmic revolution
get to bed
try again
Good Night, muse,
I really must bid you adieu.